To be a winner requires thinking you are going to be a winner. Oftentimes people want to win but don't have the confidence to be a winner. See yourself winning and accomplishing what you want and repeat in your mind – I am a winner. Confidence comes from the way you think about yourself and your positive thoughts. When talking to yourself or just plain thinking, tell yourself – I am a winner. Working at winning, thinking you will win, and seeing yourself winning will make winning a reality.